Play a Game to Develop Awesome Leadership Skills

In previous posts, we’ve explored how being a Dungeon Master (DM) in Dungeons & Dragons (D&D) offers a unique opportunity to develop leadership skills. However, stepping into the role of a player can be just as valuable in learning and practicing leadership. While you may not be the one guiding the story or setting the stage for encounters, the choices you make as a player can be purposeful in enhancing your leadership abilities. Here are three tips for leveraging your D&D player experience to develop leadership skills.

Using Your Persona to Explore Different Leadership Models

Playing a character in D&D offers the perfect opportunity to experiment with different leadership styles. Including those you might not naturally gravitate toward. A player’s character can be purposefully designed or role-played to embody various leadership models, such as:

  • Situational Leadership: Depending on the needs of the moment, does your character adopt a directive, coaching, or supportive style? Perhaps in battle, they take charge with authority, but when solving puzzles or negotiating with NPCs, they lead through collaboration and encouragement.
  • Transformational Leadership: Maybe your character focuses on inspiring and motivating others by developing a vision or goal that everyone can rally behind. These could include completing a shared quest or fighting injustice.

D&D lets you experiment with these styles and reflect on how different approaches can inspire or challenge your party. Being purposeful with different styles let’s you work out your own way of leading. Use each session to practice a leadership model that you can later apply in real-world settings.

Situational leadership, one of the many models you can use to develop leadership skills

Creating Cohesion Within the Team

A strong D&D group relies on collaboration and trust, much like an effective team in the workplace. As a player, you can take a leadership role by focusing on team cohesion. Instead of leading from the front you take the initiative in getting the players to bond as a group. Here are a few ways to foster unity:

  • Encouraging Participation: Ensure that everyone at the table has a chance to contribute. Sometimes quieter players may hesitate to speak up. As a player, you can encourage them by drawing them into the conversation or seeking their advice in-game.
  • Resolving Conflicts: When disagreements arise within the party (or even between players), step up as a mediator. This not only keeps the game moving forward but also helps you hone your conflict resolution skills, a crucial aspect of leadership.
  • Celebrating Successes: Recognition is an often overlooked aspect of leadership. Whether it’s a particularly clever move in battle or the solving of a tough puzzle, take the time to acknowledge the contributions of others. This builds morale and reinforces the idea that everyone plays a vital role.

Developing Emotional Intelligence

Being a leader isn’t just about decision-making; it’s also about understanding and managing interpersonal dynamics. D&D, as an inherently social game, offers ample opportunities to develop emotional intelligence, a core trait of effective leaders. Paying attention to how your actions, both in-game and at the table, affects others helps hone this skill.

  • Practice Empathy: Whether in character or during role-play, try to understand your fellow players’ motivations and emotions. This can help you build stronger relationships within your group, as well as improve your ability to lead with empathy in the workplace.
  • Adaptability: In both leadership and D&D, things don’t always go as planned. Use your playtime to practice staying calm under pressure, adjusting your strategies when necessary, and being flexible when new ideas are presented.

Final Thoughts

When I play D&D as a player I find great satisfaction in practicing and understanding different leadership principles during the session. I wrote about a great example of a player led mutiny here. I love it when the group are put under pressure and have to try an win against insurmountable odds. Post-game I often think about how we dealt with the stress as a team, what worked, and of course, what didn’t.

Playing Dungeons & Dragons as a player offers an incredible platform to explore and refine leadership skills in a low-stakes, highly creative environment. Using your character to explore different facets let’s you translate these in game lessons to real-world leadership scenarios. Next time you sit down for a session, think about how you can be purposefulto develop leadership—not just for your character’s growth, but for your own.

How New Workers Learn Teamwork: From Group Projects to Dungeons & Dragons

While we all know that teamwork is a critical skill in the workplace, it’s not something that comes naturally to everyone. People entering the workforce for the first time often arrive with varying degrees of experience in collaborative environments. The ability to work in a team is developed through a range of experiences. These can range from group projects in school and college to participating in team sports and clubs. But what if there was a more engaging, dynamic way to learn teamwork skills? Enter Dungeons & Dragons (D&D)—a game that not only entertains but also teaches essential teamwork skills in a way few other activities can.

Group Projects in School

For many, school group projects are their first significant taste of teamwork. These projects often involve a diverse mix of randomly assigned individuals. All of whom must come together to achieve a common goal—completing an assignment or presentation. Both of my kids are going through this at the moment. Interestingly, their understanding of how teams work (and don’t) is already beginning to form.

  • Experience: Students learn to divide tasks, manage time, and communicate effectively to ensure the project is completed on time.
  • Challenges: Conflicts can arise when some members contribute less or when communication breaks down. In fact, these challenges provide valuable lessons in conflict resolution, leadership, and compromise.

Team Sports

Participation in team sports is a well known way to learn teamwork. Whether it’s soccer, ice hockey, or volleyball, team sports teach players the importance of trust, communication, and working together towards a shared objective. With my own kids sports teams, it has been a joy to watch them progress from a bunch of individuals to a group that works as a team.

  • Experience: Athletes quickly learn that individual talent is not enough; the team must function as a cohesive unit. Success comes from understanding each other’s strengths and weaknesses and playing to those strengths.
  • Challenges: The fast-paced nature of sports often requires split-second decisions that affect the entire team, reinforcing the need for clear communication and trust in one another’s abilities.

Club Participation

Clubs offer a different flavor of teamwork, often centered around shared interests or goals. Whether it’s a debate club, drama society, or environmental group, clubs provide a structured yet flexible environment for teamwork. Usually clubs have a strong purpose, which gives the group direction.

  • Experience: Members often take on specific roles that contribute to the club’s overall success, such as organizing events, managing finances, or leading discussions.
  • Challenges: Balancing individual initiative with group consensus is a common challenge, teaching members how to negotiate and collaborate effectively.
learn teamwork with D&D
The ultimate way to learn teamwork, D&D?

The Ultimate Way to Learn Teamwork: Dungeons & Dragons

While group projects, sports, and clubs all provide valuable teamwork experience, there’s another activity that really stands out: Dungeons & Dragons. This tabletop role-playing game might seem like just a game to outsiders. But, it’s a powerhouse for building teamwork skills. Here’s why:

  1. Collaborative Storytelling: In D&D, players create a shared narrative, with each person contributing to the story’s direction. Success is rarely achieved alone. Players work together solving problems, overcoming obstacles, and achieving their goals. This collaborative aspect mirrors real-world team dynamics, where success often depends on effective communication and mutual support.
  2. Role Differentiation and Cooperation: Every character in D&D has unique abilities and strengths, just like members of a workplace team. Players must understand their own role and how it complements others in the group. This dynamic teaches the importance of role differentiation, cooperation, and leveraging individual strengths for the benefit of the team.
  3. Problem-Solving Under Pressure: D&D scenarios often present complex challenges that require quick thinking and teamwork to resolve. The pressure to make decisions that affect the entire group, combined with the unpredictable nature of the game, mirrors the problem-solving demands of a fast-paced work environment.

RPGs in Graduate Programs

Given the immense benefits of roleplaying games like Dungeons & Dragons, incorporating them into graduate programs can provide unparalleled teamwork experiences. While new to the workforce, graduates are expected to collaborate on complex projects, manage time effectively, and navigate high-pressure situations. These are skills that are directly honed through playing RPGs.

By introducing D&D type sessions into your organizations graduate programs, students gain a unique opportunity to develop and refine their teamwork abilities. Teamwork under pressure is simulated in a dynamic, engaging, and ultimately, low-risk environment. These games encourage creativity, foster deep communication, and build strong, trust-based relationships among participants. Qualities that are invaluable in any professional setting.

Additionally, scenarios can be created that reflect common leadership issues faced by your organization. Albeit wrapped in a different genre.

While traditional activities like group projects, team sports, and clubs provide essential building blocks for teamwork, Dungeons & Dragons offers a uniquely powerful way to cultivate these skills. By embracing the collaborative and immersive nature of RPGs, new workers and students alike can learn the art of teamwork in a way that’s both fun and profoundly impactful.

All you leaders out there, why not talk to your learning and development team about incorporating D&D into your graduate program?