Recently, I had the opportunity to play a thrilling roleplaying game session of “Those Dark Places” with a group of friends. This game is all about horror and adventure in deep space, following the themes laid out form my favorite film Alien. Little did we know that amidst the excitement and tension, we would stumble upon valuable insights into leadership styles and dynamics. As the game unfolded, our experiences shed light on the importance of collaboration, building leadership capital, and the consequences of failing to adapt in times of crisis. In this post, I will discuss three key leadership lessons from the game that emerged in our space faring journey.
Of course, I’m lucky to play with a group who enjoy roleplaying their characters to the hilt. This often means that the optimal solution is not always played out, making for a much more interesting game. But the leadership lessons still stand, highlighting the experiential learning opportunities that roleplaying games can provide leaders.
Lesson 1: Collaboration Over Dictation
At the beginning of our virtual space expedition, one of our friends assumed the role of the captain—a position of authority entrusted with leading the crew of space workers on a mission to aid an on-planet mine. However, the captain’s leadership style was initially authoritarian and highly directive. He issued orders without seeking input or fostering collaboration within the crew. In the absence of any serious threats, the crew complied silently, and the mission progressed smoothly. In fact the team members were helping each other with tasks while the captain was “overseeing” from a place of safety. This lack of collaboration between the leadership and the team began to create a divide. Which, as it turns out, was going to limit the effectiveness of the leader moving forward.
Lesson 2: Building Leadership Capital
However, when faced with unexpected adversity in the form of an horrific android uprising, the true test of leadership began. Tension was mounting and the pressure rising. As the crew confronted the urgent task of returning to the spaceship, evading homicidal androids along the way, the captain’s lack of collaboration and failure to build leadership capital became apparent. At no point during the adventure up to this point had the captain tried to gain the trust of the team. Directing them to do the difficult and dangerous jobs while remaining safe, refusing to collaborate and acting in a dictatorial style were to behis undoing. The crew had not developed trust or respect for the captain’s leadership style, making it difficult for them to rally behind their directives in this critical situation. This came to a head when the captain started making decisions that were putting the crew in harms way.
Lesson 3: Adaptability and Resilience in Crisis
Under the mounting pressure, the crew’s survival instincts kicked in, and they collectively realized the need for collaboration and shared decision-making. The android uprising had spread throughout the mine and the adventure theme had turned to one of survival. The captain however, was looking to follow company orders, effectively putting the crew at risk. Recognizing that their lives were at stake, they overruled the captain’s orders and effectively mutinied. In this desperate situation, the crew’s ability to adapt and work as a cohesive unit became paramount. By embracing a collaborative approach and pooling their collective knowledge and skills, they navigated through the dangers, ultimately surviving the ordeal. As their ship left the turmoil of the planet below the captain had effectively lost command.
Final thoughts
Our experience playing “Those Dark Places” brought to light crucial leadership lessons that transcend the boundaries of a mere game. The importance of collaboration, building leadership capital, and adaptability during times of crisis emerged as central themes. Effective leaders understand the significance of collaboration, seek input from team members, and foster an environment where diverse perspectives are valued. Furthermore, they invest time and effort in building trust, respect, and credibility among their team. Finally, leaders must possess the ability to adapt and remain resilient in challenging situations, recognizing when it is necessary to shift their approach and empower their team members to make crucial decisions.
Whether in the context of a tabletop roleplaying game or the real world, these leadership lessons have the potential to transform the dynamics within teams and drive them towards success. By embracing these insights, leaders can build cohesive teams that thrive in both favorable and adverse circumstances, navigating the darkest of places with resilience and shared purpose.
